30 Things of Wisdom
It all started January 21, 1995 at 9pm in a blizzard. The day I was born. People always say that their 30’s are the best years of their life because you know yourself, you have a steady paycheck and solid friends, well for me that is somewhat true. To be honest, the biggest lesson I’ve learned thus far in my 30’s, is 30 is just a number. I am unfortunately unemployed, working on my mental health and dodging plans because my metabolism isn’t what it used to be. Reality blows, but only focusing on my ‘what ifs’ are not going to get me anywhere. So from one 30 year old to my online journal, here are 30 lessons guidelines I’ve learned to live a normal and positive life.
Spend as much time as you can with your loved ones
Prioritize your health both mental and physical
Saving money is smart
People pleasing is a disease
You won’t care about that thing you just had to have
Advocate for yourself
“No” is a full sentence
Most of things you worry about will never happen
You do not need to meet your other half, you need to focus on making yourself feel whole
Don’t take things too personally
Choose your battles
Taking a break is ok
Stay in touch with people you care about
Invest in nice sheets
Dairy is not my friend
Listen to your gut
Quality over quantity
Starting over is not quitting
Buy the book
Triggers are something not to ignore
Take the compliment
Manners are always on trend
Make the Dr’s appt
Social media can be a helpful tool
Have deep talks with your friends
Cheer for other peoples success
comparison is the killer of all joy
everyone is on their own journey
Black coffee is elite
Be kind to yourself
